Obituary of Nelson Paul DeGraff

Nelson Paul DeGraff, 61, of Pokagon Highway, Dowagiac passed away on Wednesday, February 10, 2010, at his home surrounded by his family, after a courageous battle against cancer. Nelson was born to the late Louis DeGraff, Sr. and Lorriean (Sherwood) DeGraff on April 18, 1948 in Dowagiac, Michigan. On November 8, 1969 at a ceremony in Dowagiac, Michigan he married Sandra Wallace, the woman who stole his heart and has continued to be the love of his life for over 40 years. Described as a hard worker and good provider Nelson worked as a Journeymen Welder at Niles Steel Tank for over 38 years. Before Sandy and Nelson settled down to start a family, he was a stock car racer and also enjoyed working on his own car. Working hard was not something that was new to Nelson. He grew up working on the family farm and has continued living on the family property his whole life. Nelson loved having his hands deep in the soil he worked as a boy, and has been known for the vegetable and flower gardens he grew every year, taking time to teach his children and grandchildren just how to put them in and make them grow. His family knew him to be strong-willed but he was definitely a man of strong values who made sure to instill them in those who were important and loved by him Preceding Nelson are his parents and his brother, Louis DeGraff, Jr. Nelson will be greatly missed by his wife Sandra DeGraff, his son Daniel (Tracey) DeGraff, Sr. of Dowagaic, his two daughters, Dana (Steve) Glass of Edwardsburg, and Debra (Jeremy) Hadl of Dowagiac. He is also survived by his four grandsons; Daniel, Jr. and Brandon DeGraff, Zachary and Andrew Glass, and his two granddaughters, Ashley Grimes, Maggie Hadl, four great-grandchildren Aaron, Alexander, and Chaz Below and also Kaeden Meadows, and his two sisters, Carol (Auddie) Squier of Dowagiac and Sharon (Bruce) Lund of Fountain Hills, Arizona. The family would like to express heart felt thanks to the aunts and uncles and Pastor Jon Den Houter who have helped Nelson and his family during this difficult journey as well as Borgess Hospice, especially Heather, their Hospice nurse, who showed Nelson compassion and support through this difficult time. Visitation will be Sunday, February 14, 2010 from 4-8 p.m. at Mission Hills Memorial Chapel. The funeral will be Monday, February 15, 2010 at 11:00 a.m. with Pastor Jon Den Houter officiating also at Mission Hills Memorial Chapel. Those wishing to make memorial contributions may do so to Borgess Hospice 348 North Burdick St.; Kalamazoo, MI 49007 and First Christian Church of Dowagiac 121 Oak Street, Dowagiac, MI 49047.