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Friday, January 5, 2018
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Friday, December 22, 2017
This is so stupid. Why why why... I'll never understand.
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Me posted a condolence
Saturday, September 30, 2017
I just don't want to see this page anymore. I don't want to see that you're gone...
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Janell Bauer posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 20, 2017
Yes, very sweet and straight from the heart, quite obviously. I don't know you, and I didn't know Trey, but from the sound of it, you two were lucky to have each other. God Bless.
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HS posted a condolence
Thursday, September 7, 2017
A few years ago, I was bartending a wedding and I served Trey vodka rootbeers. He said, "it tastes just like rootbeer." He sat at the bar the last few hours of the night, eventually drinking straight rootbeer. He was entertaining. I asked him if he needed a ride home, he could have rode with his family but he said yes. Im glad he said yes. On the way home we sat on this pier till maybe 6 am, talking. He was easy to talk to. He wasn't a man who was afraid of sharing his emotions, or anyone else's. He was different, a rare gem, he "just got it", he got me. It's hard to meet someone like that. I wasn't sure at that time that we would become such good friends. I did know he was sassy, honest, and he said, "I meanā¦ Idgaf" a lot. He liked to be himself. Even if that meant standing out. He had things to say, and he said them, elegantly at that. I liked that.
I spent the rest of that summer, and months after, getting to know him. His death will never take away who he was. Although self loathing and sometimes self-critical, Trey was so bright, loving, and tenacious. He was full of compliments, he had a way with words, it was legitimately hard to stay mad at him for more than 1 hour. In a short and sweet time, he was prouder of me than 98% of the people I've known my whole life.
He made others feel safe, and he always wanted to help. From cars, to computers. We used to go kayaking. He took me to one zoo, one strip club, many geocache locations, a geocache in a Grandma's yard, showed me to Torrent Day, let me sync my ipod to his music, and he once gave me an entire hard drive full of movies which I still have. He liked to give people things, things didn't really matter to him but he figured they mattered to people. They didn't REALLY matter to me, but it was nice and wholesome when he gifted random things. He was genuinely thoughtful, in ways most others have fallen short. He also was the first person my dog loved more than me. And when my dog loves someone more than me, it is very telling.
Trey, you were a good dude, despite being self-critical, despite any cards you were dealt, you deserved to see the sun come up another day and I WISH SO BADLY I could have guaranteed you to do so. We all do. You deserved more than just seeing the sun come up another day. You deserved to take Kami to her first dance, to show Kain a Tb's worth of good music, or teach him to change his first break pad. Most of all, you deserved to continue bringing a sense of truth to this world. I'm not sure if you ever would have hit 3 for 3, but you won't now, and it's tragic. Thanks for being Trey Lomax. Wherever you are, I hope you are free. I hope we see you again. I hope you are laughing at my one windshield wiper.
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Wednesday, September 6, 2017
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 6, 2017
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Brown Funeral Home & Cremation Services posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 6, 2017
Brown Funeral Home & Cremation Services created a Tribute Video in memory of William "Trey" Lomax III
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Wednesday, September 6, 2017
Tree of Life Memorial Urn Pendant was purchased for the family of William "Trey" Lomax III.
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Wednesday, September 6, 2017
Sapphire Skies Bouquet was purchased for the family of William "Trey" Lomax III.
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Wednesday, September 6, 2017
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Caressa Williamson posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 6, 2017
When Trey moved to Rensselaer, we immediately became friends. He was such a beautiful soul. He had such gorgeous long hair, and he was the one person I knew I could count on to be there for me when times got rough. I'm so sorry that I wasn't able to return the favor. My heart breaks for his children and family. I hope you found your peace Trey. Rip.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 6, 2017
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Katie posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 5, 2017
good vibes being sent your way, bbygirl. He loved you.
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Me posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 5, 2017
One last thing... although I could literally write a novel about you right now. You were such a damn good writer. You just had such a way with words. You wrote this poem some time ago and I just found it again in my email the other day.... people are probably going to talk and roll their eyes and judge me for sharing it. I don't care okay. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. I was young and stupid and I didn't know anything. I admit it okay. The only way I'm coping right now is with my thoughts and words....
She was like an angel,
An angel with a beautiful smile,
And long dark hair.
Not a care in the world
She met a boy
A boy with a broken crown
And a darkened soul.
To many crushed dreams.
They swarmed each other,
Inseparable to the bone.
Eyes locked in hours of stares.
Bodies of lust.
Wash away the makeup darling,
We're few and far between.
Lies upon lies, makes it too hard for me to breathe.
Love is the answer!
We'll fight this war.
This love will never die, and I'm sorry there is no cure.
They ravished each other.
Loved till they could no more.
The strings are slowly ripping.
My hand is surely slipping.
Please don't give up she said.
He said he never could.
The battle was over, their fate was sealed.
His heart heavy, and hurt,
She speaks some last words.
Please don't give up my love,
Your heart is my home.
He bows his head and cries
This heart is broken.
There is no more home.
Forgive me now. Forgive me forever.
With a tear in her eye.
She slowly let's go.
They walk their separate ways.
I'll always love you the most. They said. As they both looked away.
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Me posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 5, 2017
I am so angry, sad, devastated and just so many emotions right now. I can not believe this is real and idk if I will ever come to terms with this. The amount of history and memories I have with you is unbearable. I can't even stomach the thoughts that have been running through my mind. I wish you would have reached out to me Trey. I wish there was something I could have done. Your life was valuable, you were valuable and I can't help but to think you were not in your own head when making such a permanent decision. I hope you have peace. I hope you aren't tortured anymore. I hope you watch over your kids and get to be a part of who they are in ways that you've always wanted to be but never got the chance to. You liked A&W root beer with no ice, Marilyn Manson, Danny Filth, Slipknot, Tool, working on cars, getting mad at working on cars, throwing things when you were mad, fixing computers, you were obsessed with keeping things on hard drives, a Taco Bell addict, you were the best driver (at least in your own eyes and you taught me how to drive as well now that I think about it), you were an introverted extrovert and pushed the boundaries of about every subject matter and it would drive me crazy sometimes, you were OCD about organizing and making things line up or match in size comparison, you loved whoppers candies (who loves those? Seriously.) and malt shakes, and you did truly deep down get such a sense of satisfaction when you were able to help people. You were so smart. YOU LOVED YOUR BABY BLANKETS. You sent one to me across the country (definitely not the oldest one) and you made sure to remind me that I knew you loved me because you did that and you would never do that. You were funny and talented and sadly I don't think you gave yourself enough credit for all of the great, unique and shining qualities you possessed. Words can't even say what is in my heart. Although our lives went on and wow did we have one hell of a rollercoaster ride together.... I will always know you, always love you, always care. I promise to always do those things. I'm sorry... I'm sorry things happened the way they did and I'm sorry that there were so many lies and so much pain. I'm sorry that so many things changed and going back wasn't an option. I wish this wasn't the end. I can't believe it and I don't want to. I don't want to accept this. I'm sorry, okay? You'll always have a piece of me that I can't get back.
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Carlena Songer lit a candle
Monday, September 4, 2017
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My heart just aches! I'm at a loss of words! My deepest condolences to Trey's family and friends!
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Amber Joiner posted a condolence
Monday, September 4, 2017
Trey was always the one who was great with words. We weren't close until we were teenagers but there was a portion of our lives that we saw eachother everyday. He was my cousin and best friend. We had some deep concersations about our lives but we always had a good time. He understood me. He was an amazing person and had such an impact on so many lives.
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Paul Clements posted a condolence
Monday, September 4, 2017
Trey was my first friend. He was mild, kind gracious, and determined to accomplish the things he put his mind to, on his terms. My many memories of Trey are happy and filled with laughter yet haunting in these moments following his demise. I'll never forget Trey and in a way he helped shape some of the ideas I carry to this day. I always looked up to him. He always seemed to bring a good presence everywhere he went. I pray that the peace of the Lord would be with all of us.
-PJ
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wanda burnett lit a candle
Monday, September 4, 2017
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Altho Personally i didnt know Trey. But I know his Grandparents Bill and Doris my sincere heartfelt condolences Im sending to them and all extended family.. Doris My heart breaks for you and Bill. May God send you the comfort and strength to get throuh this hard journey God Bless each one of you. Im so sorry for your loss
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Brown Funeral Home & Cremation Services posted a condolence
Monday, September 4, 2017
Brown Funeral Home & Cremation Services made a donation of $65 to help preserve this legacy online.
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